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Teaching, Curiosity and How to Learn

A simplicity expert shares 3 things to get right in life. The rest is details.

January 19, 2017 by Aaron Baldassare

No one has things figured out.

We’re all scared.

But if we’ve developed a valuable skill or if we have built relationships with passionate and generous people, life will tend to be pretty great.

Leo Babauta, simplicity author and father of six, offers this great advice for young people:

It’s never too late or too early to make another friend, to deepen a skill or relationship, or to explore a new fascination.

Source: Advice for People in Their Early 20s : zen habits

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Boredom is a Symptom of a Weak Mind, says Seneca. Study is the Cure.

December 31, 2015 by Aaron Baldassare

Curiosity and a love of lifetime learning are secrets to happiness, wealth and “tranquility of mind,” in the words of Ancient Stoic Philosopher Seneca.

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If you apply yourself to study you will avoid all boredom with life, you will not long for night because you are sick of daylight, you will be neither a burden to yourself nor useless to others, you will attract many to become your friends and the finest people will flock about you. For even obscure virtue is never concealed but gives visible evidence of herself: anyone worthy of her will follow her tracks.

Seneca, from his book “On the Shortness of Life. Life is long if you know how to use it.”

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The Student Creed: 4 Things to Do Daily that Nurture a Lifelong Passion for Learning

September 12, 2015 by Aaron Baldassare

I developed this creed for myself, to guide me on the path of endless fascination and lifelong learning.

Then I realized that it could work for any student of anything, so I’m sharing it. I hope it works for you too.

  1. Attempt something great, until you fail, and then try again immediately. Schools manufacture a culture that is obsessed with avoiding the wrong answers, so people stop having new ideas, which are probably wrong, yet might just be the seed of our salvation. We train students to recycle the “right answers” we gave to them in school, which got us in this mess in the first place. Instead, teachers must encourage creative risk in students, in every subject, every day.
  2. Nurture a fascination with the world, people and things. In high school, students are busy and tired with the coursework we pile on them. Despite the fact that at least 90% of the world’s most successful people credit lifelong passion as the critical element of success, we invest shockingly little in passion pursuits during school. Students have no time in class to share their passions, nurture their passions, or deepen their unique expertise. But they need to learn new things that the teacher does not know, and share them with others, in order to succeed in life.
  3. Help someone else to achieve what they want. In school, we try to be fair, and grade students on individual merit. Consequently, students don’t work together on problems, and often students get away with competitive behavior that doesn’t work in the world. The work that matters today is work done for others, with others, toward a shared goal. Besides, a generous spirit and habits of helpfulness are one of the most reliable paths to a fulfilled life.
  4. Create something valuable every day. Are you creating more than you consume? Creators continue to thrive, while consumers continue to struggle. Traditional education manufactures knowledge for consumption. The reality is that straight A’s don’t matter to the world, but a portfolio of unique accomplishments does. So tap into your creativity in every moment, and allow the muse to speak into being something new through the channel of your body and mind.

 

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18 Timeless Principles for Student Success

July 30, 2015 by Aaron Baldassare

I want to be a successful teacher, which to me means having successful students.

So I need to define student success.

I’m defining success as the ability to find fulfillment and have a positive impact, regardless of the situation. It’s a notion of success that is different for each individual, because everyone has unique paths to fulfillment and unique abilities that impact the world.

Every student will find success in a unique way. I can’t find success for them, or tell them how to do it. But I can model my own version of success, I can share my own success principles, and I can help equip students with an environment in which they can find their own success.

Here are the actions I would recommend to any student who I love as much as myself.

  1. Hang around people who are fascinated by the world around them. You’re pretty much the average of the five people you spend the most time with, so the greatest power you have over your life is in choosing your friends, coworkers and role models, because you will become like them. The best thing to become is fascinated by life. It’s the closest thing to a guarantee of success that I can imagine. So hang out with people who are fascinated by life, and generous in sharing their fascination.
  2. Be brutally honest with yourself. It’s the most normal thing in the world to lie to yourself, to tell yourself stories that you want to believe, to believe that you’re at the center of the universe. But every time you lie to yourself, you get 1 dose of pleasure today and 14 doses of pain down the road.  It’s dumb, but everyone does it. So if you want to be normal, lie to yourself. If you want to be extraordinary, be brutally honest with yourself.
  3. Share your perspective honestly, even though it’s scary to be different, scary to try an idea that might be wrong, you’ll come out with the prize: you’ll know who you really are and most people around you will admire your courage. And you’ll earn trust, a currency that is more valuable than money, and increases in value over time.
  4. Make something new every day that could benefit someone else. Creators have the most control over their lives, while consumers can only get by, at best. So realize that even if you’re creating something that you will throw away later, it’s great practice for becoming more creative, more powerful, and more in control of your life.
  5. Embrace the suck. Whenever you try something worthwhile, even if you have all the innate talent in the world, you’re going to suck at it. It’s never going to be comfortable, but competing with people who are one level better than you will accelerate your progress. When you realize that discomfort often leads to progress, and progress is the most motivating thing in the universe, you start to enjoy the process of getting your butt kicked on a regular basis.
  6. Never wait for the right time. Now or never is always the right time.
  7. Identify as a problem solver. Give yourself a superhero name. Financial success, meaning and happiness are a function of how many problems you solve for others.
  8. Zero in on some geeky obsession. Everyone says to find your passion, and this is my own version of that, because I think “find your passion” is easy to misinterpret and mess up. Spend a lot of time with that thing, and mastered it. It has to be geeky so that not everyone else is doing it. It has to be an obsession so you will continue to do it for very long time. It will take a very long time for you to become master of your craft. But it is worth it, and even the process of getting there itself is it’s own success.
  9. Keep solving bigger and better problems. Keep getting your butt kicked by a bigger adversary.
  10. Stay curious. Some say “find your passion.” I say “never waste an interest.” When you keep everything that interests you around you, your passion finds you.
  11. Read books. There are only a few things that stand out about people who are incredibly good at something, compared to everyone else. They love to learn, and they read at least 2 books a week.
  12. You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. When you choose your friends, when you choose the people you work with, and the person you marry, you are choosing who you will become. This is the most important power you have over your own life, so choose carefully and with intent. And stop hanging out with people who don’t make you better. Someone smart said, “when you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room.”
  13. Construct daily habits of success. For me, at a minimum I exercise and meditate every morning, and journal at night. I built these habits one at a time, by starting very small. When they became second nature,  A great starting place is the book, Miracle Morning, by Hal Elrod, a guy who deconstructed the most common daily habits of the world’s most successful people.
  14. Ask for help regularly. People think asking for help is a sign of weakness, but really it is a superpower. It means recognizing that other people are better than you at things, and giving them the opportunity to prove it. I used to try to do everything myself, I got nowhere and no one ever thanked me for not bothering them with a request. When I started asking for help, everything got easier and people liked me more.
  15. Get advice from others. People love to give advice, so it’s almost a favor to them to ask for it. But mostly it’s a favor to yourself, because other people always see something you don’t. And even if you don’t take the advice, it’s very interesting to hear new perspectives on things.
  16. Be playful. When you’re playing, you suddenly can withstand setbacks, you are more fun to be around, you have more energy, you can learn quickly, you stop noticing discomforts, and you give everything you have to the game. All that is useful at work, so be playful at work.
  17. Make your own list of success principles. You probably will do nothing on this list, because thousands of people more successful than I have their own advice that you’re already not listening to. But you might just listen to your own advice.
  18. Take your own advice. The best reason to give advice that I’ve found is that now you have to follow it or else you’re a hypocrite. Your advice to others is usually the best advice to yourself.

So create a list of your own success principles and place it somewhere you can’t avoid it. As you gather more principles, add it to your list. That way you’ll have a living document to your philosophy which will serve a constant reminder of your values.

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I love to tinker, develop skills, and work out challenging problems.

I work as a High School Math and Computer Science Teacher, third year, after 5 years as a web developer. I play jazz guitar and am learning traditional man things like carpentry or how to tie good knots, to keep the kayak tethered to the car, for instance. I live with my wife and two Shih-tzus. Click here to see my reflections on my first year

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